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The light is near, but yet so far away the tunnel I am in is so shallow, all the people near are all hollow no hearts or souls and nothing in between they’re eyes of Evil who judge and not care, what lies beneath the skin just flesh and bone, the soul is no longer near the pain of living gets stronger out through this year, but keep your head up hope is near the ones you love so dear will always be here, to love and hold you through out the year, let the good in and the bad run out don’t listen to the ones who don’t care about, the ways you live and the ways they do may be different but we are all equal this is true the shallow ones will never know and never care but the ones who do, matter so dear.
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By: Cameron Furniss.
The Light is Near
What should I do if I self-harm?
You don't have to keep it secret or let it rule your life. Talk to someone today. Start with your GP or one of the organisations below.
In the meantime, try doing something else when you get the urge to harm. Get outside and do something different. Learn to spot when the pressure is building up. Understand that everyone has times like this and that you deserve a gentler way of dealing with it.
Install a punch bag. Beat up a pillow. Squeezing an ice-cube or flicking an elastic band works for many people.
What if one of my friends self-harms?
The most important thing is to be accepting and not judgemental. Offer to listen if they want to talk. Gently try to persuade them to get professional help and not to keep it secret.
But remember, it's not your fault if they harm and you mustn't feel guilty if they carry on.
Don't join in. Peer pressure is a powerful thing. Self harming is good for nobody and the marks last forever.
Self Harm.
Suicide is NEVER THE ANSWER!,
You are beautiful no matter what anyone says or does to you, you are beautiful on the inside and no one can change that, everyone has a reason for living, even when times may seem horrible, and you may feel alone, unwanted, worthless, uncared for, and even suicidal, and feel like live is going to hell, and feel that it won’t change or get any better, it will get better, and I know this from exspearence, life brings you ups and downs and you have to look on the bright side of things, because of you don’t then your going to let life bring you down and it’s not worth it, because they’re are so many beautiful things in life and they’re are no reason to always look at the bad things in life when they’re are so many amazing things to be discovered. and just thing of all the amazong things you have to live for, falling in love, getting married, having children who will love you with all they’re hearts no matter what, to spend time with the ones who love you and to laugh and smile and be happy with, to find your passion in life, they’re are so many things to live for, and no matter what people say and no matter what people do to try and hurt you, you need to just let it go in one ear and out the other, and just ignore them and say fuck it, we only live once and it’s your life, so live it to its fullest and remember nothing happens ever night so if your depressed then stay strong it takes time to find happiness and once you too your realize all the depression all the hate and anger you may have with life was all in your head, and your brain controls everything about you, so sometimes we allow our selfs to be so wrapped up around everything that’s happening with our lives to realize the real things that are happening around us and we only see what we want to see and causes us to thing nagatively about our lives when in realality nothing is as bad as it seems to you. So just close your eyes and clear your mind and really think about the great things In your life and listen to something smooth and just lay there and think about what I’m saying because they’re are so many people who care about you!, no matter what it may seem like. And I’m always here to listen and to help. Live is beautiful and live and love your self, and be beautiful because you are a beautiful person no matter what you look like on the outside, no ones perfect and we need to accept us for our selfs and live out lives. And go out and get a hug from someone it helps.
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BY: Cameron Furniss.
Suicide?
Never give up, keep on trying,
Life isn’t always easy, there ups and downs, it all depends on how you make it, look on the bright side, good things will happen, may take time, but not everything comes easy, if you believe in something, follow it; no matter what anyone else may thing, try your best and you will see, hold your head high and be proud to be free.
Things come and go everyday,
But once in a while something happens that you just know it’s your time to leave, for better or for worst, that’s the chance we take, for the things we feel or believe in. Follow your heart, and your passion, always listen to your gut, because things aren’t always as they seem, be safe on your Way as things will always change.
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By: Cameron Furniss.
Hope and Dreams.
For many people, their parents' divorce marks a turning point in their lives, whether the divorce happened many years ago or is taking place right now.
About half the marriages in the United States today end in divorce, so plenty of kids and teens have to go through this. But when it happens to you, you can feel very alone and unsure of what it all means.
It may seem hard, but it is possible to cope with divorce — and have a good family life in spite of some changes divorce may bring.
Why Are My Parents Divorcing?
Parents divorce for many reasons. Usually divorce happens when couples feel they can no longer live together due to fighting and anger, or because the love they had when they married has changed. Divorce can also be because one parent falls in love with someone else, and sometimes it is due to a serious problem like drinking, abuse, or gambling. Sometimes nothing bad happens, but parents just decide to live apart.
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Did you know it’s really common for teens to think that their parents' divorce is somehow their fault? Just try to remember that parents' decisions to split up are to do with issues between them, and not because of something you might have done or not done.
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Some kids feel guilty about what happened, or wish they had prevented arguments by cooperating more within the family, doing better with their behavior, or getting better grades. But separation and divorce are a result of a couple's problems with each other, not with their kids. The decisions adults make about divorce are their own.
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If your parents are divorcing, you may experience many feelings. Your emotions may change frequently, too. You may feel stressed out, angry, frustrated, or sad. You might feel protective of one parent or blame one for the situation. You may feel abandoned, afraid, worried, or guilty. You may also feel relieved, especially if there has been a lot of tension or fighting at home. These feelings are very typical and talking about them with a friend, family member, or trusted adult can really help.
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- KidsHealth.
Dealing With Divorce
Something’s come, something’s go, something’s you keep a hold of, and never let go, if you do, that’s foolish for you, Sometimes you just know. hold on to the things you feel that are so dear, or follow the ones that are not near.
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By: Cameron Furniss.
Something Come​
and Somethings go.
I think I've got an eating disorder...
Ask yourself these questions:
Do I
Feel guilty when eating certain foods.
Sneak food or eat large amounts on the spur of the moment.
Prefer not to eat in front of other people.
Stop going to fun events because there might be fattening foods.
Weigh myself a lot and feel fat even when I'm not Often count calories and/or fat grams and worry about what I'll eat next.
Try not to eat for a while, and then overeat and feel bad.
Make myself vomit, use laxatives, or over exercise.
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Said yes to any of these? Especially the last question? You may have a problem, Talk to someone you trust and see your GP. Don't waste any time. The sooner you start getting proper help, the better your chances of beating it. Don't spend another day being miserable about food.
Eating Disorder
The heart I seek is not near, follow the one that means so dear, never let go & if you do, they may not always be here for you, follow your heart where ever it may lead, then you will find the one you will need, hold on tight, and never let go, i’ll always be here for you though, a crossed the land or sea, this is where we will always be, one day we’re destined to be, forever and always.
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By: Cameron Furniss.
We will be, Forever and Always.
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Make peace and love, not war and hatred. believe In peace and follow what you believe in, hold your head high and be strong, life is what we make it, look into the stars nothing is impossible, follow the rainbow and your find your way to possibilities, help others and others will help you on your journey, learn from your mistakes and become smarter,
Live your life your way, no one can stop you if you refuse to let them.
By: Cameron Furniss.
As a person who has a lot of control over they’re emotions and body, it seems I have absolutely no control over my tics, as had as it is having Tourette’s it can at times take a toll on your body and emotions,
To feel helpless, and the urges to do the tic and try to hold back for it to just get worse, to feel kind of trapped, that they end up getting you annoyed to the point your stressed out and sick, just want to sleep just so they stop.
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By; Cameron Furniss.
Having Tourette's (TSD)
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HAVING A SECRET
when you have a secret no one knows, you feel safe, but when that secret gets releast fear begins to rain,
secrets; you can say are not true, or you can live threw them, but then again if you just act as if you don't care, and be honest about whats true
then no one can really hate on you, we all have secrets we try to hide, sooner or later they're pass us by, long forgotten and never looked back on,
so hold on tight everything will be alright in the end.
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By: Cameron Furniss. (ADVICE)
people are always looking for ways to express them selfs,
threw art, music, self image, Ect. no one can tell you how to express your self,
nor can they show you the way to do so, expression is within all of us,
you have to feel what you feel expresses who you are within,
no now but your self can feel what expresses who you are the most,
because expression is different for everyone.
look within, and feel what inspires you, what makes you tick,
use that to your addvanttage to find your true self and once you do
your find your ways of expression.
By: Cameron Furniss. (ADVICE)
EXPRESSION
you should never be scared to stand up for your self or for others,
if you personally feel its for a good reason. no reason to be scared,
no reason to worry, if you do good then good will be returned to you.
By Cameron Furniss. (ADVICE)
STANDING UP FOR YOUR SELF
beauty is within all of us, may be hard at times to find within others,
and lack to show threw the think skin of humans who show hate on others, its not what people do that make you beautiful, its the personal special little
things you do to show others you care at the end of the day that make you beautiful, no need to be scared, no need to be hurt by what people may say, because you are special in your own special way.
By; Cameron Furniss. (ADVICE)
BEAUTY
when you feel alone, you have no friends not because no one lives near or because others don't like you, but because you feel others your age are annoying and immature, and don't have the option to have older friends, you just got to be positive about whats going on, if your alone and feel you need a friend, look for one, don't be picky, keep in mind its your choice that is causing you to be alone, get up and get out, go find a friend, someone your click with, not everyone your age are all the same, if you give people the chance they will show you, sometimes there are people out there with to be descovered.
By: Cameron Furniss. (ADVICE)
ANTI SOCIAL​
when you still have feelings for some who doesn't care about you anymore, it hurts.
it takes a long time to get over, you feel as if your always going to be unhappy,
that they were the only one for you, this isn't the case, in the back of your mind you still remember
all the good things you two had with each other, those moments play in the back of your mind over and over again,
you have to realize these moments with that person are in the past and you need to move forward with your life,
find something positive in your life, what you did with your Ex, you can do even better with someone new,
give someone new a chance to show you that your Ex isn't the only person who could make you happy,
yes you may feel as if o one new is as good as your Ex, but in time your see, there are amazing people all around you if you just give
the person a chance you will see.
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By: Cameron Furniss. (ADVICE)
FEELINGS FOR SOMEONE.
if a parent is in bad health and your not sure what is going to happen to them,
it can scary you emotionally inside, you can feel depressed overly stressed,
and so many other feelings, as humans these feelings are normal, there isn't really anyone around them,
but the only thing we can do is spend as much of our time with them because they won't always be here for us when we need them to be,
tell them everything you have to say to them, any secrets you may have hidden from them, anything personal you would like them to know, these moments could be the last moments you have to do so, tell them out much you love and care for them, make them happy and your be happy, at the end of the day you can look back on it and see you've done everything you could before it was there time to go, the hurt inside will never go away, but your learn down to life around the pain, keep on moving forward with your life as your parent would have wanted you too.
By: Cameron Furniss. (ADVICE)
LOSING A PARENT
even though they're our parents, doesn't always mean they are as accepting as they should be on who we are as a person,
some people say its against god, to be gay or bi or anything in that form of speaking, but yet god has made you this way, no one is born
without a reason, and everyone was born in the near image of god, there are no mistakes in humanity, everything happens for a reason,
we all should be accepted for who we are no matter what sexuality we have or gender we are, same as color of our skin or where we come from,
people done have to accept you for who you are but they don't have to judge you for it either. your parents are your parents, they may not understand
or like it and they may kick you out or be distant from you for a while, but in the end they will come to realize you are they're child and they need to accept you for who you are, because you will never change, don't be nervous about the outcome, in the end everything falls in place.
By: Cameron Furniss. (ADVICE)
PARENTS AGAINST SEXUALITY
Changing your style can always be something to worry about, not knowing what people will think about your change, or how your friends will react, if they will still want to be your friend or just leave without a care. If your parents are going to judge you or support who you are even if they don't support your style. We all go threw many style changes in our lives growing up from being a kid into a teenager into adulthood, in most cases kids going into teen hood normally end up going towards the alternative style, not really sure why but it just happens to be this way, the alternative style does get looked down append a lot because of miss understood reasons and are stereotyped by many to be "emo" or trouble maker or druggie style but it isn't, alternative was never meant to be stereotyped this way but yet it is in some cases, but doesn't mean it has to always be this way, but in most cases as a friend or as a family member we should always support you as a person no matter what your style is, because style doesn't always make you who you are, style only helps express who you are as a person, depending on how you use it. As a person older then you should know most of the time when we change a style as a teenager it's mostly only going to last so long even if you right now don't think so, over time you get more mature in age and start to lean to other styles over time or your current style may modify and get simpler or more complexed depending on the person, but the point is DONT be scared to be your self, if your changing your style because its what you feel that will express who you are as a person then do it, and the real people in your life will support you on your choices, done change over night in style but go to a new style slowly and over little time your style will become what you want it to be without a huge major change over night, but keep in mind listen to the most important people around you your family and Actual friends if they say you shouldn't be wearing something because it looks bad on you then maybe you should take that into account, just because you have a style doesn't mean everything about that style will look good on you so got to keep it simple and don't over do it, witch in a lot of cases teens try to do a lot. Be confident in your self and your style, don't change styles just because you think it's cool or because everyone else is doing it,
You got to be your self not a follower, not do what everyone else is doing, you got to be original and be your self what expresses "you", not try and be something your not, you will regret it and your confidence will go way down if you become something your not because your end up feeling trapped and fake, instead of being your self and having people who support you for you being your self, not for being something your not.
Just because something is cool
Doesn't mean you need to be doing it.
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By: Cameron Furniss. (ADVICE)
JUDGMENTAL PEOPLE OVER STYLE / STYLE CHANGE
When your loosing someone you care about to cancer or any other way, there is no easy way of coping with the pain of loosing a loved one, major depression could come into effect in a lot of cases, you just got to be strong and hold on tight, I know it's hard but you got to keep looking forward, keeping a positive mind and keeping your mind active, talking to people about how you feel and about what's going on threw your head will help a lot having someone there for you to help cope, spending as much time with the person your about to loose and being there for them every step of the way will allow you to have some since of happiness knowing you where there for them.
If it was something tragic and you couldn't be there for them in the time of loosing them, it is a lot harder to cope with, but still the same things go in effect with trying to cope with what's going on, it hurts and it's a horrible thing to go threw but life goes on and things WILL get better over time, they are in a better place or will be going to a better place, they may not be with you anymore here on earth but they will always be right by your side looking down on you, do what would have made them proud, they wouldn't want you to stop living your life over losing them, they wouldn't want you to give up on things or feel bad about them leaving, so keep your head held high and stay positive and talk to others about what's going on in your head and talk threw it, it helps a lot when you have people there for you to cope threw these hard times.
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By: Cameron Furniss. (ADVICE)
LOOSING SOMEONE TO DEATH OR CANCER
when you've know someone for a while or a long time you build a trust with that person, you feel you can trust then with anything even your life, but when they end up lying to you about something, it hurts and you feel a wall start to come between you two, you start to loose a little trust in them, in this situation only thing you can to is front them about it, dont call them a lier but tall about how you feel and tell them how you dont want a wall between you two that its important to you they stay truthful to you, they should understand and want the same thing as you do, as you two should be really close and understand each other.
talking threw it is the best way to make things better without causing drama or a great thing you have together to end. be calm and work thing out. ​
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By: Cameron Furniss. (ADVICE)
I TRUSTED YOU
when a friend stops ​talking to you or talks behind your back or ignores you, or makes fun of you, you need to realize that they are not a friend, no matter how badly you wish or want them o be your friend, they never will be a true friend, they will play an act in front of your face but when your not around its a different story, they are making fun of you or judging you or worse and your sitting here thinking that their your friend and your still trying to get them to hang out with you or making plans with them, its NOT woth it, their not worth your time and you can do so much better then them, you need to go out and meet some new friends actual friends, not ones who will hurt you, now get up and go out and meet new friends don't worry about the ones that aren't real.
By: Cameron Furniss. (ADVICE)
WHEN A FRIEND TALKS BEHIND UR BACK OR STOPS TALKING TO YOU
BEING ABUSED?​
​​if you are being abused by a family member and no one else knows about it, you may feel scared to tell someone about it, or worried what people may say or think, or scared what your parents are going to do, dont be worried, you need to tell someone about this, if you dont it will keep on happening and may get worse, most important thing you can do is tell someone about this, a friends parent if possible! dont worry about whats going to happen to your parents or worry about them hurting you more for telling someone about whats going on, if you tell someone outside your family they can help you and the police and state is here to protect you and keep you safe! your end up living with a grandparent or close family member if you dont have any then a close family friend they will find someone you can live with who wont hurt you. if you are being bused by anyone outside your family it is best for you to tell a parent as soon as possible as they can help you in many ways, you dont deserve to be going threw these things, be strong and keep your head held high things will get better!!
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By: Cameron Furniss. (ADVICE)
BEEN ABUSED BEFORE?​
​​if you have been abused in the past, you may be going threw a ruff time or depression, the best thing to do is talk about it, get everything off your chest, be open about what has happen to you and have someone you can talk to about it, if you dont have a close friend or family member to talk to about these things then there are many places where you can go to talk about these things, instead of being all wrapped up on the past you need to be positive about these things and realize you can make it threw this and go and help others who have been threw the same things as you to get threw it, ​
you take the bad and turn in into a positive thing,
yes you where abused, but now you can get threw it and be happy with your self, you have made it this far, so why not keep on moving forward? hold on tight and teach others how to get threw these hard times, you can makes a difference in not just your life but many others lives as well.
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By: Cameron Furniss. (ADVICE)
two out of three people who struggle with depression never seek help, and untreated depression is the leading cause of suicide. In America alone, it’s estimated that 19 million people are living with depression, and suicide is the third-leading cause of death among those 15-24 years old.
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